1291160 jmdict A [id=1985359]
差し控える[news1,nf23]；差控える
さしひかえる[news1,nf23]
[1][v1,vt]
  to be moderate in; to be temperate in; to not do too much of
[2][v1,vt]
  to refrain (from doing); to withhold (an announcement, comment, etc.)
[3][v1,vi]
  to be beside; to be close by