<entry id="2285348" stat="A" corpus="jmdict" type="jmdict">
<ent_corp type="jmdict">jmdict</ent_corp>
<ent_seq>2859264</ent_seq>
<k_ele>
<keb>惚れた弱み</keb>
</k_ele>
<k_ele>
<keb>惚れた弱味</keb>
</k_ele>
<r_ele>
<reb>ほれたよわみ</reb>
</r_ele>
<sense>
<pos>&exp;</pos>
<pos>&n;</pos>
<gloss>being a slave of love</gloss>
</sense>
<info>
<audit time="2023-11-15 17:58:51" stat="A" unap="true">
<upd_detl>not sure I have this right, improvements welcome</upd_detl>
<upd_refs>https://belcy.jp/63280
https://rennai-up.com/horetayowamitoha/
https://smartlog.jp/148651</upd_refs>
</audit>
<audit time="2023-11-16 01:00:44" stat="A">
<upd_uid>jwb</upd_uid>
<upd_name>Jim Breen</upd_name>
<upd_email>...address hidden...</upd_email>
<upd_detl>Trimming a little.</upd_detl>
<upd_refs>惚れた弱み	11038	94.2%
惚れた弱味	684	5.8%
GG5: これも惚れた弱味で仕方がない． This can't be helped, as she has me a slave of love.</upd_refs>
<upd_diff>@@ -15,2 +15,3 @@
-&lt;gloss&gt;putting one's partner ahead oneself due to desire to please and fear of losing him/her&lt;/gloss&gt;
-&lt;gloss&gt;being always subservient to one's partner (and ignoring one's needs) due to excessive infatuation&lt;/gloss&gt;
+&lt;gloss&gt;being a slave of love&lt;/gloss&gt;
+&lt;gloss&gt;putting one's partner ahead of oneself&lt;/gloss&gt;
+&lt;gloss&gt;being always subservient to one's partner&lt;/gloss&gt;</upd_diff>
</audit>
<audit time="2023-11-17 21:07:39" stat="A" unap="true">
<upd_uid>robin1354</upd_uid>
<upd_name>Robin Scott</upd_name>
<upd_email>...address hidden...</upd_email>
<upd_detl>I think the second and third glosses are just examples of 惚れた弱み.</upd_detl>
<upd_refs>meikyo: 恋愛関係では、より強くほれているほうがより強く弱みをもつということ。</upd_refs>
<upd_diff>@@ -14,0 +15 @@
+&lt;pos&gt;&amp;n;&lt;/pos&gt;
@@ -16,2 +16,0 @@
-&lt;gloss&gt;putting one's partner ahead of oneself&lt;/gloss&gt;
-&lt;gloss&gt;being always subservient to one's partner&lt;/gloss&gt;</upd_diff>
</audit>
<audit time="2023-11-17 21:22:35" stat="A" unap="true">
<upd_detl>i don't think so</upd_detl>
<upd_refs>https://happymail.co.jp/happylife/love/weakness-in-love/
https://smartlog.jp/148651#S45926518</upd_refs>
<upd_diff>@@ -15,0 +16 @@
+&lt;gloss&gt;putting one's partner ahead of oneself (because of love)&lt;/gloss&gt;</upd_diff>
</audit>
<audit time="2023-11-29 05:40:25" stat="A">
<upd_uid>jwb</upd_uid>
<upd_name>Jim Breen</upd_name>
<upd_email>...address hidden...</upd_email>
<upd_detl>I'm with Robin on this. It's a simple expression and this gloss captures it.</upd_detl>
<upd_diff>@@ -16 +15,0 @@
-&lt;gloss&gt;putting one's partner ahead of oneself (because of love)&lt;/gloss&gt;</upd_diff>
</audit>
<audit time="2023-12-07 15:51:26" stat="A" unap="true">
<upd_detl>Hi, submitter here. Comment in the meanwhile was not by me.
For what it's worth, in the work I was reading, the term was defined right after the mention:
(She is heartbroken and her friend is consoling her on the phone.)
「アイツのことは惚れた弱味だと思ってもう少し頑張れよ。[pause] あんまりぶったれてるとアイツに愛想つかされるってことだよ。アイツは女に不自由してないんだから。」
I assume ぶったれてる is supposed to be ぶーたれてる

So the author is saying it's specifically holding back due to fear of getting dumped.
I don't know what a "slave of love" is and can't find any definition online so I can't judge the accuracy of that.</upd_detl>
</audit>
<audit time="2023-12-08 00:50:52" stat="A">
<upd_uid>jwb</upd_uid>
<upd_name>Jim Breen</upd_name>
<upd_email>...address hidden...</upd_email>
<upd_detl>I think it's fine. I had no problem with the meaning.</upd_detl>
<upd_refs>ChatGPT: "Even if you think of that person as a weakness born out of love, hang in there a little longer."</upd_refs>
</audit>
</info>
</entry>